By: Dr. Jaci Verghese, Chief Program Officer
Behavior support helps the child learn positive skills, manage emotions, and reduce challenging behaviors so they can succeed at home, school/work, and in the community. In simple terms, it focuses on understanding why a behavior happens and teaching better ways to communicate and cope.
Instead of asking, “How do we stop this behavior?” behavior support asks, “What is the child trying to tell us?” For example, a child may act out because they feel overwhelmed, frustrated, or unable to express their needs. Behavior support helps identify these reasons and teaches safer, more effective ways to respond.
Behavior support may include:
- Teaching communication skills (words, pictures, or gestures)
- Helping children manage emotions like anger or anxiety
- Creating clear routines and expectations
- Encouraging positive behaviors through praise and consistency
- Supporting families with strategies that work in everyday life
Every child’s support plan is individualized. This means strategies are based on your child’s unique strengths, needs, and goals, not a one-size-fits-all approach.
Behavior support is provided by trained professionals such as Behavior Specialists or therapists who work closely with families, caregivers, and schools. Parents and caregivers play a key role because consistency across environments helps children learn more effectively.
Most importantly, behavior support is not about punishment. It is about teaching skills, building understanding, and helping children feel successful. Progress takes time, but even small steps can lead to meaningful, lasting change for your child and your family.